If you’re a partner or loved one of someone who has PTSD, here’s a shortcut to some of the posts on Coming Back Home that were written specifically to address questions asked by partners and family members.
Note: most of these posts were written as responses to questions asked by a group of female spouses of male RCMP officers who have PTSD. I know that not all spouses are female, and not all people with PTSD are male…This blog used to have a small audience, and some of these posts were geared toward that original audience. It is not my intention to make anyone feel invisible. Whenever possible, I try to keep my posts as genderless and inclusive as I can.
What should I do when my partner pulls away from me emotionally? You can read more about why people tend to pull away here. A related topic, why it’s so hard for a person with PTSD to tell you what’s bothering them, is discussed here.
How can I tell the difference between PTSD and depression? If you would like more information about depression, you might find it helpful to read this, this, and this.
If there are any other posts on this blog that you think need to be added to this list – please let me know, and I’ll be happy to add a link.
Please feel free to share this post, and any other on this blog, with anyone who might benefit.
I’d love to have you share your thoughts, comments, and questions. If you do post a comment, please don’t give specific details of your trauma – these may be triggering to another reader. If you’d like to offer criticism, I’ll take it – I know I’m not perfect, and I’m always willing to learn. If you do offer criticism though, I’d really appreciate it if you could do so constructively (ie., no name-calling, please). Thanks…
~ Dr. Dee Rajska, C. Psych.
*Fine print: Please feel free to share the link to this blog wherever you think it might be helpful! Reading this blog is a good start, but it’s no substitute for professional help. It takes a different kind of courage to admit to yourself that you’re struggling. PTSD is not a sign of failure – it’s a sign that you’ve been through a lot, and have tried to stay strong for too long. If you need help – you’re in some pretty great company. Reach out, and give yourself a chance to feel better.
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